This is the fifth installment in a seven-part series on being disciplined. We all would like to be able to think a little clearer, feel a little better and enjoy the things we need to do in life a little more. No matter where you are when it comes to being disciplined, these thoughts can help you better achieve your goals and continue along your path of being disciplined.
So you’re a procrastinator. Welcome to the club.
This isn’t generally a cause to celebrate. Epic procrastination sessions are more likely to land you in the hospital than garner a standing ovation for productivity and accomplishment. And since procrastination is an incurable disease, it’s best to just stop fighting against it and learn how to work with it from the hospital bed instead.
Us procrastinators have it the worst. It’s not that we want to be lazy. We just physically can’t get anything done until the last minute. However, this can be worked to your advantage to get things done by setting real deadlines that are out of your hands.
Setting deadlines for yourself doesn’t work because in this situation you’re ultimately only responsible to yourself, and any good procrastinator knows he is perfectly happy to let himself down.
The trick is to create deadlines that are beyond your control. This means giving other people control over when you must finish a project.
- Project: Organize your living room (vacuum, pick the Cheetos out of the sofa, etc.)
- Deadline: Invite friends over to watch a movie in the evening
- Project: Post to your blog weekly
- Deadline: Write something in the header like, “updated weekly” or “new posts every Monday.”
- Project: Be a better runner
- Deadline: Put good money down in a non-refundable 5K race
- Project: Wash the car
- Deadline: Get yourself a date for Friday night
- Project: Get out of bed in the morning
- Deadline: Lock your alarm in a box and give your neighbor the key
- Project: Finish A Clockwork Orange
- Deadline: Join a book club with some English blokes
- Project: ____your project here______
- Deadline: _____your deadline in the hands of others here_____
Forget taking charge. Let others take charge for you, and reap the benefits!
Now that’s a good motto for us procrastinators. I think I’ll bring it up at our next meeting, whenever that happens. Come to think of it, we’ve never had a first meeting. We might have to invite a few non-procrastinators to join the club so we can finally get around to getting together…
Project: Publish an English instruction book Deadline idea: Maybe think about hiring an English speaking editor…
This is the fifth installment in a seven-part series on being disciplined. You can read each of the posts by clicking below:
- How to be disciplined: Defeating deception
- How to be disciplined: Do the minimum
- How to be disciplined: Do things you hate
- How to be disciplined: Day by day
- How to be disciplined: Deadlines
- How to be disciplined: Descriptive self-talk (Next week ish)
- How to be disciplined: Desire (Next week ish)